This event was one of the first of its kind, at least the first to be widely documented, and the public outcry prompted a lot of research into was has been called “diffusion of responsibility” or “the Genovese bystander effect”. Simply put, contrary to popular expectation, the more people that witness an event the less likely anyone is to step forward and intervene.
It’s been almost 47 years since the murder of Kitty Genovese. Our world is more interconnected than ever before. Events that occur on the other side of the world are beamed into our homes in real-time. We are bystanders to literally everything that is happening at every minute of every day. And yet when tragedy strikes many of us still do nothing.
Whenever I talk to people about investing in the lives of our less fortunate neighbours whether through planned financial giving, donation of surplus goods or simply giving of your time, I often receive the same kind of response.
- Isn’t organization a, b, or c already doing that? Why duplicate efforts?
- How do I know that I’m not supporting corruption?
- What makes you think this is going to make any difference at all?
- I’ve got enough problems of my own. I have to take care of myself and my own family first.
I must admit, at one time or another, I’ve used all of these arguments myself. But the fact of the matter is, if you see suffering and convince yourself to do nothing you have contributed to the diffusion of responsibility and people will die.
It is a sad reality that much of the donor funds given to worthy causes are wasted but that is not a reason to stop giving. Demand accountability, do your homework but please for the Love of God, do not allow suffering to continue when it is in your power to stop.
I can hear some of you already; “But it is not in my power.” Yes it most certainly is!
Helping people is almost always uncomfortable. It requires sacrifice. Perhaps going without a luxury item that you feel you deserve or taking time away from a favourite leisure activity. But when it comes to human beings, isn’t it worth it?
My friend Rick Tobias is the director of the Yonge Street Mission in downtown Toronto. He puts it this way, “The greatest lie ever told is that some people are worth more than others, not that it places certain people on a pedestal but that if some people are worth more it stands to reason that others are worth less. When you give yourself permission to think of others as worthless it opens up all manner of abuse and neglect.”
The next time you’re confronted with the suffering of a fellow human being remember Kitty Genovese and ask yourself; "how much is a life worth?"
Better yet, ask God how much a life is worth. He spelled it out in Leviticus 27, and it isn't much. ;-)
ReplyDeleteBut seriously, to the people who come up with the objections to giving you note, I suggest this approach:
While you are able to do so, give your time instead of your money to charities to the extent that you can. It is much harder to corrupt your time, and it sure isn't a duplicated effort.
During the course of your life, make notes of charities which you would consider donating to. Do your research. Figure out which ones are the most effective with financial donations for the causes which you want to support.
In your will, instead of passing on your wealth to your family, donate it to the charities which you have selected. If you raised your kids right, they are most likely strong enough on their own without your inheritance, so the charities would be better served by your funding.
I agree with your point here. You seem to be emphasizing localism in this post which I strongly agree with. Whether it is somebody standing at a corner begging for food, work or a ride, to a stranger in need who walks into your worship service asking for money for rent or help of some kind..but then there are others who are too ashamed to ask for help. When we see those in need not asking for help we should offer to help in as an understanding way as possible. I recently heard of a program where people who enjoy weekend racing such as myself to take needy children on joy rides on a closed course with all necessary safety equipment. In doing so, any one of a number of latent hobbies and talents from driving to mechanic work can be brought in a young man or woman. So people like me who love to autocross get to share our love of fast cars with young people who need a mentor. The most important lesson is that our cars are gifts from God and sharing God comes first, yet anyone can achieve a decent car with honese hard work.. Also, find a young man or woman who doesn't like cars. I just found about this a few days ago and am going to find out when and where it is.
ReplyDeleteWhile I am emphasizing localism, (and feel that it is the most way we can share Christ with others, helping those impacted by the recent an loomng typoons in Pakistan or doing misson work in a 3rd world country is just as much doing God's work as any, as long as we take extra effort to make sure ou donations go to God's work and not Satan's
To the Wise Fool, i agree wholeheartedly with your statement regarding time over money and have made statements to that effect.
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ReplyDeleteTo Let the world be silent: Would you say that there one religion that is superior, or are all religions equal?
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ReplyDeleteI don't believe in any religion, (a system of rules or rituals) I beleive in relationship and the person of Jesus Christ.
Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." [John 14:6]
I intended the question to Let the World Not Be Silent. I accidentally left the "not" out of that person's name. Could the administrator please edit the error in the mane. I apologize and meant no offense or disrespect. I dont believe in insulting others and feel bad about that.
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